What Children Do For Their Aging Parents (A Partial List)

Assist with household maintenance

  • Make meals
  • Do grocery and other shopping
  • Clean the house
  • Do yard work and other outdoor maintenance
  • Take care of household repairs
  • Install safety devices
  • Oversee retrofits

Help with money management

  • Write and deposit checks
  • Balance checkbook
  • Be alert to scams
  • Act as fiduciary to handle parent’s financial affairs
  • Assist parent with preparation of legal documents such as will, trust, and durable financial power of attorney

Provide personal care and support

  • Provide physical assistance for dressing, bathing, washing hair, etc.
  • Arrange for haircuts and other personal grooming services
  • Help find appropriate mobility devices and other assistive devices
  • Provide transportation to social and religious activities
  • Provide companionship
  • Provide warmth and affection
  • Listen to and discuss physical, emotional and mental issues
  • Provide connection to larger world (e.g. help with voting)
  • See the elderly as more than elderly

Provide and/or monitor health care

  • Evaluate, hire, and supervise home health aides
  • Pick up medications
  • Manage and administer medications
  • Provide transportation to doctor appointments
  • Arrange and coordinate medical and support services
  • Interact with doctors and other medical professionals
  • Fill out medical paperwork
  • Implement care plan
  • Monitor caregivers
  • Evaluate facilities
  • Coordinate transitions

Deal with bureaucracies

  • Fill out paperwork
  • Argue with hospital, government, and insurance officials
  • Intervene in the event of scams or problems with elder abuse or neglect in facilities

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